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And when did you finally learn the truth? As Grant says, sharing what you like will encourage more of the same. I think it's so hot when you do that.

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Share your fantasies during late-night pillow talks, discuss sex the next morning, keep those sexts going — and you should both begin to feel more comfortable. This should go without saying, but you should only send these kinds of messages to someone you have an established relationship with and know would enjoy them.

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Because that will only make your partner's blood run cold, and put them on edge. Focus on communicating and leave your inhibitions at the door. Be sure to read the situation as best as you can to see if they're in the mood and available for it.

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